Give what you want to receive

“You can have everything in life that you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”

–Zig Ziglar

I want you to live your best life possible. I want you to wake up and just feel amazing about life, your body, your job, your kids, your bank account. I want you to live the life of your fucking dreams sooooo badly!!!! But on this journey to creating a life we love, we sometimes get all caught up in our own shizzz and forget one of the most important principles for achieving your version of success: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”

  *For the audio version of this post, click below and give it a sec to load*



If you really want to get what you want, helping others is the oldest, truest way of getting there.




In order to get what you want, you have to give it. Giving is how you start the receiving process. If you want more love in your life, give love to someone else. If you want to have more self-confidence, help someone become more confident. If you want to be stronger, help someone become stronger. Whatever you want to have, help someone get that and you will receive it 10 folds.



By now you should know the importance of mindset. The world can be whatever you want it to be, but it begins all in your head. This one shift in your mindset will radically change how people, life and the world in general responds to and receives you.


Make this mindset work for you.


If you knew in your hearts of hearts, that in order for you to get all that you want you have to give first, would you be willing to do it? If that’s all it takes to live a damn, awesome, fun, loving, kick ass life…are you going to  rise up and do it? Or will you continue to sit by the sidelines and remain the same?


Giving is how you start the receiving process. –Jim Rohn


Give, and you will get 10 times fold.


We all have goals and things we want to accomplish. We all have this picture of how we wish our lives could be. In my last post I wrote in great detail how you can be, do, and have all that you want. Use the exercises in that post to help you get a clear vision of the person you need to become to have it all. Then you’ll figure out how you can go about giving that very same thing away to others.


Do you need more strength? Who can you help strengthen?

Do you need more patience? Who can you teach patience to?

Do you need more inspiration? Who can you inspire?

Do you need to become more thankful? Who can you teach gratitude?

Do you need more boldness? Who can you help become bold?



Get it?


Whatever it is that you want- confidence, desire, passion, respect, fun, love, joy, compassion, honor, mindfulness, fearlessness, excitement, peace, radiance, etc.. you have to give.

Give what you need, give what you want. What you give to others, you give to yourself. And because we live in a limitless Universe that’s overflowing with abundance, when you give what you need, it somehow multiplies itself back to you. Amazing isn’t it? Mind-freaking-blowing.


But hey, you may think I’m full of crap right now. You may be having a hard time wrapping your head around all of this.

Get over it.

Listen, if you want a different life, you need to be open to learning new things. You need to get the fuck out of your comfort zone and embrace things that may seem out there, or unusual to you. Remember, feeling uncomfortable, feeling resistance, is usually a sign of growth. It’s usually a sign that that thing that is causing you to feel weird, or off, or against, is the VERY thing you should be embracing.


I’m preaching from a place of experience. I’ve used these exact same principles to transform my once upon a time shitty & suicidal life. I have yet to meet someone who’s had a rougher childhood/early adulthood than I have. This isn’t a competition, but I say that to point out that if I, ME, this person who lived a “child called It” abused life, then fell deeper into the dark as teenager and adult, if I can overcome that horrible, shitty, rank mentality that was engrained deep in my psyche, using all the principles that I’m telling you about…maybe…just maybe….you ought to give it a try. See for yourself, experience for yourself the power of MINDSET.


Life wants you to win.


Life, The Universe, Source Energy, God, Goddess, Shiva, Higher Power, The Big Kahuna, gut, intuition, Spirit, The Force, The Mother Lode- it doesn’t matter what your chosen deity is or what you call it….it wants you to WIN.


It wants to give you all that you desire. In order to receive all of your wildest dreams…ya gotta give first. Giving opens the gateways. It changes your energy, your vibration to meet the same energy of that which you want. You become a freaking magnet for all that is good and awesome.


What do you have to lose? Dream of all that you have to gain simply by giving.


Leave a reply